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How To Keep Your Cat Quiet While You Sleep 

A cat owner’s guide to ensuring a restful night’s sleep and keep your cat quiet.

Wendy Toth
Wendy Toth

Vet-reviewed by Dr. Pippa Elliott, BVMS MRCVS ·

how to keep your cat quiet

One of the more frequently mentioned drawbacks of having a cat is the fact that they tend to get the zoomies at night. Learn how to keep your cat quiet and get some sleep.

For some reason, many cats become hyperactive when the sun goes down, which can cause their people to lose sleep. Whether it's running around the house, meowing incessantly, or engaging in playful antics, these actions can leave you feeling exhausted and sleep-deprived.

If you’re pulling your hair out, saying, “My cat keeps me up all night, and I don’t know what to do,” you are not alone. This article from Webvet offers some strategies to stop your cat from keeping you up at night and explains why this situation might be happening in the first place.

Understanding Why Cats Are Active at Night

Cats, like many other natural predators, are nocturnal. Yes, this applies even to domesticated cats.

Now, instincts are not the main reason why cats appear to be more active at night. Some of the causes include:

  • Natural Instincts: The predatory instincts of a cat may lead them to stalk, pounce, and engage in playful behavior when the world around them seems to be quieter.
  • Boredom: Indoor cats often experience boredom, especially if they lack mental stimulation and opportunities for physical activity during the day. Without adequate venues to spend their energy, they may become more active at night to alleviate their boredom.
  • Need for Attention: Some cats may engage in disruptive behavior at night to get the attention of their owners, especially if they feel neglected or lack social interaction throughout the day.
  • Environmental Stimuli and Changes: Changes in their environment, such as noises, scents, or other pets in the household, may trigger a cat's nocturnal behavior. Changes tend to cause stress and anxiety in cats, too, which leads to erratic behavior in some.

We recommend observing your cat’s behavior to identify the cause behind their nighttime antics. Consider adjusting factors like their daily routine, playtime, the availability of toys, and social interactions.

Understanding the root of the problem will help you create an effective approach to managing your cat’s nocturnal behavior and ensure a peaceful night's sleep for both you and your furry friend.

Creating a Cat-Friendly Environment

One of the best ways to address nighttime disturbances coming from your cat is by creating a cat-friendly environment that provides plenty of stimulation.

The best way to meet your cat's needs is by:

  • Providing Interactive Toys: Interactive toys that mimic prey and encourage physical activity usually amuse cats, especially young ones. Playtime sessions with toys like feather wands and laser pointers are effective at tiring your cat out before bedtime.
  • Purchasing Scratching Posts: Cats have a natural urge to scratch things. Scratching helps them maintain their claws and mark their territory. Providing sturdy scratching posts throughout the house allows them to fulfill this instinctive need without damaging furniture. It’s recommended to place a scratching post near their favorite sleeping spot to encourage stretching and scratching before their bedtime.
  • Creating Comfortable Resting Areas: Cats love cozy spots for napping. Ensure your cat has access to cat beds, blankets, or even window perches where they can observe the outside. Having dedicated sleeping spots will encourage your cat to remain calm during the night.
  • Engage in Nighttime Play and Feed Sessions: Engage in a short play session and feeding time just before your bedtime. A routine helps create a connection between play, food, and rest. Your cat will associate these activities with winding down for the night.

The key to success is consistency. If you are consistent enough, your cat will learn to associate nighttime with rest, leading to more peaceful nights for both of you.

Establishing a Bedtime Routine for You and Your Cat

If you have a hard time determining what a routine for your cat should look like, here are some of the things to always aim for:

  • An Evening Play Session: Play with your cat during the evening, especially before bedtime. Physical activity helps exhaust their energy and satisfy their instinctive nature.
  • Gradual Wind-Down: If an evening play session isn’t possible, try to engage with your cat more often during the day. And then slowly help your cat wind down at night. Shift to more modest interactions with your cat as night approaches, such as gentle petting and cuddling. Avoid stimulating games or activities that could lead to increased excitement before bed.
  • Mealtime Before Bed: Consider feeding your cat its last meal of the day just before bedtime. A satisfying meal tends to induce sleepiness. You can also use puzzle feeders or food-dispensing toys to make mealtime more engaging and mentally stimulating for your cat, especially if you are too exhausted for a play session.

One thing to remember is that cats are individuals with unique preferences and personalities. It may take some time to find the perfect routine for your unique cat.

Being patient and carefully adjusting your cat’s routine based on its responses is a fantastic way to approach the experience.

Dealing With Nighttime Disturbances: How to Keep Your Cat Quiet

In addition to creating a stimulating environment for your cat and coming up with a routine to satisfy their needs, there are some things you can do to reduce the chances of having your sleep disturbed at night:

  • Creating a Separate Sleeping Area: Set up a sleeping spot for your cat outside of your resting area. Make it inviting with a comfortable bed, a blanket, or its favorite toy, and if you can, add a piece of your clothing that carries your scent. The scent can give your cat a sense of safety.
  • Closing Your Door: An excellent idea is to close your bedroom door and leave your cat outside. Closing the door ignificantly reduces disturbances caused by your cat, like it jumping on the bed or meowing for attention. If your cat is used to sleeping with you, be prepared for an adjustment period, as they may protest the decision at first!
  • Keeping Things Calm: Try to keep noise levels low and avoid turning on bright lights if you need to get up during the night. Don’t make aggressive movements either, as they may cause your cat to become mentally and physically active.

If you need to make changes to your cat's sleeping situation, gradually introduce these changes. Cats are sensitive to change, so introduce new sleeping spots or routines over several days to allow them to adjust at their own pace.

Be patient, as the time it takes your cat to adapt will greatly depend on their personality.

Addressing Cat Behavior

Just as a small child has certain attitudes that should be corrected or addressed early, cats also need this type of treatment.

Training them to discourage them from acting in certain ways and encouraging them to act in others. One important thing is to know how to address attention-seeking behaviors.

Cats are smart, and they learn through their actions and the responses they receive. Responding to attention-seeking behavior during the night may inadvertently reinforce it.

We recommend:

  • Staying Calm and Resolute: During the night, remain calm and don’t react emotionally. Avoid scolding, yelling, or showing frustration, as this might give your cat the attention they seek, even if it's negative.
  • Avoiding Eye Contact or Verbal Interaction: If your cat meows, scratches at the door, or tries to wake you up, resist the urge to make eye contact or verbally interact with them. Eye contact and talking are perceived as attention by cats, and they may continue the behavior in hopes of causing a reaction in you.
  • Turning Away and Staying Still: “My cat keeps me up all night meowing!” If this is a common complaint for you, respond to its actions by turning away and remaining still. This communicates to your cat that you are not interested in interacting and that their behavior will not result in attention from your side.

Consistency is key to breaking unwanted behaviors. If you decide to ignore attention-seeking behavior, it's essential to stick to this decision every time it happens. Cats are quick learners, and if they find that their behavior is sometimes rewarded with attention, they will likely persist in their efforts.

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FAQs

Should I let my cat sleep in bed with me?

It depends on your personal preferences and your cat's attitude. If your cat's nighttime activity frequently disturbs your sleep, it might be best to establish a separate sleeping area for them. However, if your cat's presence brings comfort and does not disrupt your sleep, having them in bed can benefit both of you.

How long will it take for my cat's nighttime behavior to improve?

It depends on their personality. Some cats are more difficult to work with than others. Consistency and patience are key, as it may take several weeks for your cat to adjust to the new routine and learn more desirable behaviors.

My cat's nighttime behavior persists despite trying various strategies. What should I do?

If your cat's nighttime disturbances continue, consult with a veterinarian or a certified animal behaviorist. They can assess your cat's health and behavior and offer tailored advice and strategies to address any underlying issues causing the problem.

Wendy Toth

Wendy Toth is an entrepreneurial writer, editor, and mom of two humans, two dogs and one cat. She’s currently Content Director here at PetFul. For the last 15 years she has held positions at Parents Magazine, NBC, PetSmart, and GreatPetCare, where she was co-founder. Her writing has appeared in many national outlets including Pet Lab Co., Retail Me Not, Ask Men, Wild Society Nutrition, and The New York Times. Because she loves her work so much, she’s obsessed with helping others find career fulfillment, and covers it regularly at PowerSuiting.

Dr. Pippa Elliott

Veterinarian · BVMS MRCVS

Dr. Pippa Elliott, BVMS, MRCVS, is a veterinarian with nearly 30 years of experience in companion animal practice. Dr. Elliott earned her Bachelor of Veterinary Medicine and Surgery from the University of Glasgow. She was also designated a Member of the Royal College of Veterinary Surgeons. Married with 2 grown-up kids, Dr. Elliott has a naughty Puggle named Poggle, 3 cats and a bearded dragon.

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